Recognizing Trauma in Other Family Members
Topics: Couples, Family, Mental Health
Indirect trauma exposure
PSP and PSP families can experience direct exposure to trauma by experiencing, witnessing, confronting, or being involved in a traumatic event. Over time, repeated exposure to details of a traumatic event can also impact PSP families. This is called indirect exposure and is sometimes referred to as vicarious trauma and/or secondary trauma. There are some differences between vicarious and secondary trauma. Vicarious trauma occurs over time and can change how a person sees the world. The person with secondary trauma experiences trauma-related symptoms in response to another person’s trauma.
Difference between vicarious and secondary trauma
- comes with a lasting change in worldview through an empathic relationship
- can develop as an accumulation of hearing about several traumas over time
- can include affective and cognitive changes, such as alterations in self-identity and mental health
- involves experiencing trauma-related symptoms in response to another’s trauma
- can happen as a response to a single event
- can lead to manifestation of PTSD symptoms among contacts of traumatized individuals, including family members
Examples of Vicarious and Secondary Trauma
Effects of indirect trauma on family members
SSOs and other family members who are indirectly exposed to details about serious traumatic events can be affected. When SSOs and family members become “sounding boards” and learn about traumatic events through PSP family member, they are at risk of indirect trauma.
The effects of indirect trauma on spouses and significant others (SSOs):
- Discomfort and anxiety – SSOs can feel discomfort and anxiety when PSPs share details of incidents with them. It affects their perception of safety and trust and may change their worldview.
- Withdrawal – Those experiencing indirect trauma may withdraw from others and feel a sense of hopelessness and helplessness. It can affect the person’s sense of identity and negatively impact relationships with family, friends, and co-workers. For more information on avoidance/withdrawal behaviours (see ambigious loss).
- Physical symptoms – The trauma experienced by PSP can be internalized by SSOs through their effort to help the PSP. This can result in physical symptoms such as nausea, headaches, fatigue, and confusion. SSOs can also experience posttraumatic stress symptoms, including avoidance and hyperarousal.
- Compassion fatigue – Compassion fatigue can arise through empathy and taking on a caregiving role. Those who live with someone who has developed PTSD are at higher risk. Emotional numbness is a symptom of compassion fatigue.
The effects of indirect trauma on children:
Studies of military families indicate that children are at risk for mental health challenges when a parent is living with an operational stress injury (OSI). These include emotional and social problems as well as learning difficulties.456 Military children have been found to imitate their parent’s PTSD symptoms (secondary trauma).
Children of PSP have been found to be susceptible to developing separation anxiety disorder.7 Children of traumatized first responders also at risk of developing posttraumatic stress symptoms through secondary trauma. The psychological functioning of parents is related to their children’s mental health and wellbeing.8
Exposure to PSP’s trauma may also result in:
Posttraumatic growth (PTG) occurs when an individual experiences a positive psychological change after exposure to major trauma or life crisis.
Hearing about someone else’s trauma can lead an individual to develop more positive views on human resilience, including amazement at the human spirit.
This can result in positive changes, including learning to be more compassionate, becoming more accepting of others, and gaining a greater appreciation for life itself.
Vicarious resilience occurs when those indirectly affected by trauma are positively influenced by the resilience of someone who was directly affected. Resilience is often demonstrated through that person’s journey and recovery process.
Vicarious resilience can include positive meaning making and growth through the vicarious experience of someone else’s journey through trauma.
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